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8 Best Things You Can do for Your Children ...

By Alison

Every parent wonders if they are doing a good job, and asks themselves, "What are the best things you can do for your children?" Being a good parent isn't about giving your children everything they want; teaching them skills and giving them affection are far more important. Here are some of the best things you can do for your children in order to equip them for the adult world and help them grow into confident people …

1 Financial Knowledge

One of the best things you can do for your children is to teach them how to manage money. Unfortunately, many people grow up without learning a commonsense attitude towards financial issues. So ensure that your kids learn how to be sensible about money - this is a skill that will serve them very well indeed.

2 Independence

Do you know any parents who just can't let go of their offspring? Some still treat their adult children as their mini-mes, even when the "children" have long since left childhood behind. If you bring up your children to be independent, then you're doing a good job.

3 Individuality

Sadly, not all parents are good at encouraging their children to develop their own interests and personalities. You may have parents who wanted you to follow in their footsteps in some way, and who didn't give you the chance to pursue your own path. When you're bringing up your own kids, don't make the same mistake. Always help them to be a person in their own right.

4 Education

Not every child is academic, but encourage your kids to work hard on their education. Qualifications will give them a better chance of doing well in life. Studying is so important, so identify what their best subjects are, encourage them to pursue the topics they most enjoy, and help them in the subjects they aren't so hot on.

5 Household Skills

How many times have you said "I wish Mom/Dad had taught me to …"? If you know how to fix things around the house, change a car tire, or repair clothes, then teach your kids those skills. Knowing these will save them a lot of time and money! And above all, teach them how to cook - especially boys.

6 Balance

Always treat your kids fairly and give each of them equal time. What may seem trivial to you can be a major issue to a young child. So if their older brother gets taken to sports games and their sister has music lessons, make sure that they have an activity of their own or time alone with Mom and Dad.

7 Value of Money

As well as teaching your kids how to manage their money, you should also teach them that they can't expect to have everything they want. Spoiling them won't be helpful for their future, as they'll develop a sense of entitlement. It's better for them to learn that treats are limited, and that you must work for things you want.

8 Love Them

Finally, one of the most important things you can do for your kids is to give them love and affection. This will help them grow up to be confident adults. Make sure that they feel secure and wanted, without smothering them of course!

Being a parent is the toughest job anyone could do, and many parents have doubts about their abilities. Chances are you're doing a great job, but remembering these tips should help reinforce that. Bring them up with values, teach them independence, and then look forward to grandchildren! What do you wish that your parents had taught you?

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