7 Things to Think about before Enrolling Your Daughter in Ballet ...

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There are a lot of different questions you probably have when you’re thinking about enrolling your daughter in ballet. That’s normal! You should have a lot of questions before enrolling your daughter in ballet, because dance classes could end up as a life-long commitment! Personally, my mom enrolled me in dance classes when I was three years old, and I kept dancing until I was eighteen. I loved dance. However, over the course of fifteen years, I encountered many people who didn’t love it as much. There’s no way to truly know which way things will go for your daughter, but there are some questions you can ask before you enroll her in classes!

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1. Does She Really Want This?

Depending on your daughter’s age, it may be difficult to tell if she really wants to take ballet. However, it’s something to think about when you’re enrolling your daughter in ballet. Maybe she’d like a different dance class more. Maybe she’d like another activity altogether! Look at her interests on a regular basis and see if it seems like something she’s interested in. Ballet classes are very common in young girls, but if it’s not something she seems interested in, you’re only torturing yourself, your daughter, and her teachers, because she will not want to be there!

2. Are You Ready for This Commitment?

Dance is a huge commitment. I’m sure you’ve seen Dance Moms. While most studios aren’t as committed as the Dance Moms are, it can get pretty intense. It may seem like a fun activity for your daughter to try out during preschool, and it might just be that. However, be prepared that she could be in dance classes until she’s eighteen. The chances are slim; I’ve danced with hundreds of girls over the years but only a few of them made it to their senior year. Still, it’s a possibility that you have to take into account. Are you ready for recitals, quick costume changes, competitions, catty parents, and the works? It can sound scary, but recital and competition times are actually incredibly exhilarating, I promise.

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3. Is She Ready for This Commitment?

Yes, she’s probably still pretty young. But just like if you’re ready for this commitment, she needs to be ready for the commitment as well. Dance classes could last a few years, or they could last for the rest of her life. Is she ready to commit to dance classes? Is there another activity she’d be more likely to commit to? Think about this before you enroll her in ballet classes.

4. Is She Old Enough?

I was a dance instructor for a few years in the toddler classes. I cannot stress enough how important it is that your daughter is old enough to start classes. I had many students whose parents insisted they take classes, even though they were two years old, or still in diapers, or sometimes both. It only ended in tears and meltdowns. Waiting a year or two isn’t going to hurt anyone. Your daughter needs to be both physically and mentally old enough to fully participate in dance classes.

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Being "old enough" isn't solely about chronological age—developmental readiness matters too. Young children vary widely in their ability to follow directions, stay focused, and handle the structure of a ballet class. Consider your child's individual maturity level—are they able to engage in group activities without becoming overly distressed? Can they manage separation from you for the duration of the class? These are key indicators that can help you determine if your child is truly ready to take on the challenge and enjoyment of ballet lessons.

5. Can You Afford It?

Affording dance classes goes right back to committing. Sure, right now, it’s one class, one costume, a pair of ballet shoes, and a few cute outfits for class. In a few years, it could be that times five, plus competitions and new pointe shoes every week. Depending on your daughter’s interest in dance classes, it could get pretty expensive. Most studios offer fundraising options to subsidize the cost, but even then it’s important to make sure you can afford it beforehand.

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6. Do You like the Studio?

I can’t stress how important it is to love the studio you sign your daughter up at. You could be stuck with these people for over a decade. They will become your best friends or your worst enemies. Make sure you like the teachers, the office staff, and the other parents. Make sure your daughter can make some friends in the class. A good or bad studio can make all the difference.

7. Can She Try It out?

If you’re still on the fence, talk to the teacher and ask if she can try out a class before you commit to classes every week. That may be the best way to tell if it’s something your daughter would love or not.

In the end, most girls will take a year or two of dance classes when they’re growing up. Even so, it may become a life-long hobby, and that’s something you should think about before you take the initial plunge. Are you thinking about enrolling your daughter in classes? What are some questions you have? Have you already enrolled your daughter in classes? What was your biggest concern going into it?

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My mum put me in ballet when I was 3 and since then I've never looked back. I'm almost 17 now and I'm gonna begin auditioning for professional companies come summer holidays.

Let your children decide if they want to do stuff like this, I watched my brother and sister in concerts and I made up my mind from that to do ballet myself! I did it for 16 years and really glad I did, i might not be dancing now but it's still a passion anyway

This article makes it sound like if you find that you don't like the studio after a year, well then too bad you're stuck there forever! There is such a thing as switching classes, studios, or dropping dance all together!

@Beth it's mostly if you decide to be competitive, it's best to stick to one studio or people can get mad (it's just crazy dance stuff). you can switch. I did, but it was before I became really competitive. I know girls who did switch, and we are still friendly with them. it's just a loyalty thing:)

While I agree with Shell, my parents made me take dance lessons from age 3-10 and I hated it. I think I disliked it partly because I was so young when I started, but my parents never gave me the chance to choose what kind of dance I wanted to do. Always listen to your kids and let them have some say in it because they will be more inclined to stick with something they want to do.

Another thing- the whole commitment thing, like you'll have no choice once you join? Maybe I'm miss reason what she's trying to say, but I figure if my child joins and ends up not being able to commit (or I can't commit the time either I suppose) then pull out after the first year. She makes it sound like well once she's in she has to stay in for at least a couple years? It was just weirdly written, and clearly I'm having a hard time interpreting what she would mean by the statements she made?

While I can see that little girls should not be pushed to do certain kinda of activities or in this case, dance style. I think trying them is still a good idea since they'd get a taste for it and then figure out what exactly they'd want and what they are into. Every experience whither it's appealing or not, it can widen horizons!

I have been teaching dance for eight years now. And our dance studio is NOTHING like dance moms! And really I honestly believe every girl should just try ballet! Let girls be girls please! Dancing helps coordination and confidence self-esteem and exercise is good for the mind! And really the parents need to pick a dance school that is NOT like the dance moms!!! That's completion dance only, not regular dance classes! Also, ask questions to the owner of the studio! They may even be able to give you a discount price if you take more than 2 of 3 classes! Plus, be sure to ask the price of costumes! Honestly some studios pick out costumes that are way too pricy...and there's no need for that! Most companies offer a three in one. That means the same body suit with pants, shorts, tutu and/ or skirt!

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