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What's the importance of child training?

Child training is a duty that is delicate, mandatory and very stressful. While we all hope that it produces the best result for the future, that the child meets all our expectations and in turn takes care of us at old age, in some cases, the opposite is the case.

We have seen cases where kids who had little resources while they were young turn out to be very responsible, respected successful men in society, while others who had all they ever wanted turn out to become wayward. This goes a long way toward explaining that a lot of factors come into place, as regarding child training for a successful result.

I will make it bold here that every society built on sound principles becomes great while the ones established on greed or material things are bound to fail. Child training is a rigorous exercise. It takes time, resources, energy, emotions and hope in the process and therefore must be done with knowledge, decisiveness, precision and must be planned. Here's everything you need to know about the importance of child training.

I see child training as a business that is non-negotiable. You may choose to ignore it at your own peril. And doing it the wrong way bears the same result often as choosing not to do it. The result of the investment is not certain but it is a responsibility nature places on us as parents, whether we are single fathers or mothers, mature or not, rich or poor, together or separated.

Once you have a child, you have become a parent and this business of nurturing and training becomes yours no matter how much you want to separate yourself from it. Once this call comes your way, your emotions get invested without your permission and the journey starts. So if you don’t want to be involved, don’t get started, but I can assure it is a pleasant journey when correctly engaged. The following tips will help you as a parent, whether together or separated.

The result of child training affects both the family and the society and spans into the next generation, hence must be approached with proper wisdom. Once we lose in the family we lose the society. School cannot do it, neither can the church do it alone. If the family is lost, there is no hope for tomorrow.

1. Plan Ahead

A popular saying has it that whoever does not plan to succeed has planned to fail. This is a simple statement of life because nothing is static in life. Life is like a hill. Any object not pushed up is pushed down.

How do you plan child training? Because it is a future investment, you need to plan for it. You need to plan for their schooling and the financial commitment needed even before the arrival of your babies. This you also need to do even when you have an unexpected pregnancy and you decide to keep it, which I always advise. Plan the housing, the school, the discipline level you want to maintain for your kids, the things you want them to know and when they should know, especially for guys with an ill past.

There is the need to agree with your partner, if together, on how both of you will handle the kids’ discipline and informal education. You are in for trouble if you allow the school to decide the discipline, morality, choices and spiritual orientation of your kids. Because many parents lose at this level, they lose it all because they feel that parenting is just providing a house, food and the material needs of kids. Parenting is more about modeling than provision. The former decides the result and usefulness of the latter. Plan ahead.

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