7 Toys You Should Not Buy for Your Little Girl ...

By Jasmine • Jun 29, 2014 • MD

There are certain toys you should not buy for your little girl. Some send out the wrong message while others are just completely inappropriate. It's quite shocking that some manufacturers promote and sell certain play toys. Take a look at some of these toys you should not buy for your daughter and tell me what you think.

1. Toys That Are Too Suggestive

Remember the uproar over Bratz Dolls, and worse, their baby-counterparts, all of whom wore short-short skirts and loads of eye makeup? Moms were outraged, calling them "hooker dolls" and boycotting the brand. The issue? They seemed to sexualize children, and toys like this are clearly sending the wrong message, and way too early at that. That's why these sorts of dolls are landing them at the tip-top of my list of toys you should not buy your daughter.

2. Toys That Promote Outdated Gender Roles

Your little girls would probably enjoy a tiny toy vacuum or their own little feather duster, but to some parents, they help encourage what they feel are outdated gender role stereotypes. A solution? If you do buy her one of these types of toys, let her follow Daddy around, shadowing him while he tidies up.

3. Toys That Are Dangerous

Toys are recalled by their manufacturers all the time, and usually it's because they're somehow dangerous - tiny parts, lead paint, you name it. A few years back, it was Polly Pocket dolls with tiny magnets that could be swallowed and then wreak havoc on the child's digestive system. So please, before you buy, thoroughly examine the toy for potential defects or danger.

4. Prank Toys for Adults

Remember the "Pole-Dancer" doll? She was meant to look like a child's toy, but was actually a prank gift meant for adults. Especially if you tend to do shopping at garage sales and swaps, be on the lookout for these gag gifts - your little girl might not think anything's amiss, but you probably don't want her playing with a pole-dancing "exotic dancer" doll.

Discover the most enchanting halloween costumes for kids in our late selection. We've curated a range of classic, unique, and fun outfits that your little ones will adore. These costumes guarantee a memorable Halloween that's sure to enchant your family and friends alike. Redefine the Halloween experience with these incredible costumes.

5. Toys That Are "Girl" Versions of Boys' Toys

Some parents are livid about this - why do the LEGO brick toys have to have a "girl" version? While some girls might like playing with the LEGO Friends collection, others wonder what the big deal is about pink and purple bricks with flower and other "feminine" extra parts. This choice might be best left up to your little girl - does she want the newly-announced girl chemist LEGO set, or the Lemonade-Stand LEGO Friends set?

6. Toys That Feature Violence

Some parents are okay with toys and video games that feature extreme violence and even misogyny (think the Grand Theft Auto series), but others are much less inclined to allow their little girls (and boys!) to play with them. It's always a good idea to watch movies and play video games before you let your child see them. And toy guns aren't necessarily "bad," but be sure you're careful to let your child know they're never to be pointed at another child, even in play!

7. Toys That Encourage Self-infliction

Tattoos are not a taboo. Well, at least to me they're not, since I do have a few. However, crafts set and dolls like the tattoo Barbie are introducing young girls to this fad just a little too soon. I think we should give our girls time to grow up and just enjoy being young. An interest in tattoos or piercings will come with time.

Children's toys should be innocently educational with a little fun on the side, but some do have a hidden agenda. Sometimes you have to reconsider the toys you want to expose your daughter to every time you visit a toy store. With that said, are you familiar with any of these types of toys? Would you buy any of them for your daughter?

Feedback Junction

Where Thoughts and Opinions Converge

  • Mary

    2014-06-29T20:28:30.286Z

    I was never allowed to have the rubber toy snakes! It was because my parents were afraid I might see a real snake and try to pick it up!
  • Inna

    2016-08-09T03:28:50.398Z

    @Brandi H Yeah, I agree :)
  • Pannacotta

    2014-06-29T16:22:38.042Z

    meh I played with Bratz and I still have a lot of them. I never once thought that when I was a kid. I liked them because they looked like anime characters. I also liked how their heads were bigger than their bodies. I thought they were cute so idk about that.
  • Kaye55

    2014-08-03T05:24:52.232Z

    I grew up with the bratz dolls before the baby ones and I never had a problem about all the drama with it I work in a make up store but don't wear every product under the sun I do basic mascara blush and a little powder. I feel comfortable in jeans and a tee shirt not short skirts and a crop tops like half the 12 year olds out there these days. If anything I guess kids are easily influenced now.
  • Roshni

    2014-06-29T21:44:27.287Z

    I loved the Bratz dolls, had the entire collection and not once did the dolls make me want to wear make-up or dress in tiny skirts. It really comes down to the upbringing and parents clearly establishing that those are toys, only meant to be played with, not copied.
  • SSWendy

    2014-07-20T17:56:26.149Z

    I have to say that I disagree with some of these points. I seriously doubt that playing with a pink toy will have much influence on how you become when you grow up. Kids don't overanalyze the toys they play with.
  • Brandi

    2014-06-30T06:56:31.581Z

    Barbie is not bad. she had every career and let's any kid role play. what about Ken is he bad too? to each her own. parents assign gender roles not toys. I had pink and purple toys and dolls growing up and my fav color is blue.
  • Elena

    2014-06-30T19:50:44.575Z

    I'm in high school and I still love to play with my STAR WARS Legos just fine😋
  • CrazyGirl

    2014-06-29T14:43:31.337Z

    yep.i do agree.
  • youinspiremyinnerserialkiller

    2014-06-30T10:56:08.545Z

    what the hell why is blue automatically a boy colour loads of feminine people like blue and parents assign those gender roles by surrounding their kids in an environment that encourages them. including toys.
Commenting as

Keep exploring

Search AllWomenStalk for your next read.

Add allwomenstalk.com as a preferred source on Google to see more of our trusted coverage when you search.
Allwomenstalk app icon

Don't Miss the Latest Version

Get the latest stories, save favorites, and share with friends — all in one place.

New Earn badges & level up while you read

Create your profile. Earn badges. Level up your reading.

Join Allwomenstalk to track your streaks, collect badges, and earn XP for the things you already do—reading, sharing, and taking quizzes.

  • 🔥
    Daily streaks with gentle boosts for 3, 7, and 30 days.
  • 🏅
    Collect badges like Reader I–III, Socialite, and Quiz Ace.
  • ⚡️
    Earn XP for reads, deep reads, likes, comments, and shares.

It’s free. Takes 30 seconds. Already have an account? Sign in.

10,000+ badges earned last month

Level

3

Streak

7 🔥

XP420 / 700

Badges

🔥 On a Roll
📖 Reader I
📣 Socialite

Trending products

Other Cool Reads

Related Topics

what to say to a gurl things you should never tolerate in a relationship which words should not be used in this essay? true friends don't stage of crushing how to lose weight as a stay at home mom lovepanky first date how to ruin a date in the first minute should you brag in your college essay why do i sneeze when cooking
Featured article image