I caught my son masturbating last night. How can I make him stop?

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When I was younger, my father caught me masturbating and he sat right down on the couch next to me and started masturbating himself. Well, you bet that freaked me out to the point where I never masturbated again. My dad always said masturbating was a sin. I don’t want my son to go to Hell. Should I use this tactic on my son? He’s 15 and we never really had the “sex” talk. If I don’t talk to him about sex, couldn’t he grow up and have unprotected sex and get diseases? I heard that unprotected sex causes HIV, herpies and diabetes. How can I make it so this doesn’t happen? And how can I make him stop masturbating? Please help, this is extremely uncomfortable.
That is disgusting. I am no pervert. This is my son we’re talking about here. Be appropriate.
Julie’s a b*tch
Well, if he’s going to masturbate, I want to know about it. Maybe I can put some sort of video monitoring device in his room or check his sheets every morning after he leaves for school. I just want to know he’s masturbating safely. I don’t want him to be hurt. I mean, I’d rather he not masturbate at all, but if he must, I want him to be safe. Do they make condoms for masturbating? I’m really un-informed about all of this.

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  1. August 14, 2012 at 3:54 am Permalink
    jess : did she really just say unprotected sex can cause diabetes omg. dumb ass.
    • December 16, 2012 at 11:50 am
      Maria : @jess, umm its a guy and he’s confused so shut up if you don’t have any advice.
  2. January 8, 2013 at 10:07 am Permalink
    John : What? It is PERFECTLY normal for a 15 year old boy to masgurbate. I bet that you don’t know why do people masurbate.
  3. June 3, 2011 at 2:02 am Permalink
    sam : Think about it this way if you scare him (the way your farther did) your son will be grosed out and may feel so uncomfortable he may not consentrate at school for a few weeks ... See more maybe a month or 2 so you don’t want to do that also he may in fear mention this to his friends and get bullied.

    My advise would be to talk to him and all you have to say is ” Son personaly I dont masterbate or wank whatever you wish to call it. I do not mind if you do want to do it as long as you prommise to not get your sperm all over the bedsheets or in your underwear. When you masterbate clean up with toilet paper and flush it down the toilet. this makes it easy for everyone. If you wish to stop masterbating and cannot because you are addicted come to me your dad and i will help you by buying you a cage for your penis which prevents you masterbating and lets you use the toilet at the same time .

    SO use those exact words and you will be fine, If you/yourson wants to see a picture of that cadge for his penis it is alittle one and fits all penis’s and is suitable to prevent masterbation and at the same time alows him to use the toilet and you will keep the key from the padlock to prevent him masterbating. This is it : http://www.amazon.co.uk/Chrome-Male-Chastity-Device/dp/B004IFD3OI/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&s=kitchen&qid=1303510897&sr=8-2
    these and plastic versions are recomended by most people!.

    I hope this helps and no there is no condom for masterbating however there is such a thing as a “posh wank” which is a wank (masterbating) inside a condom this is okay but not soo good so dont waste money on buying condoms unless there for sex.

    Also other words for masterbating are : Wanking,Masterbating,Wank,